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Racism in America is not just black and white



As a white person in America, I have  felt that I had to walk on eggshells. The thought of attributing someone's actions or behavior to the color of their skin has never occurred to me. It seems ridiculous to do so. When we stand together on a battlefield defending our nation, do we differentiate between colors? Absolutely not. We are one, united as a team, fighting for a common cause.

Shouldn't this same attitude of unity extend beyond the battlefield? Should we not prioritize each other, and accept each other regardless of color? This is the message we should convey, that no matter the color of skin, we are one people, and we should stand together.

Racism in America is a significant issue that needs addressing. It affects people of every color, and it impacts individuals and society in profound ways. We must all come together and work towards creating a society where individuals are judged based on their merit and not by the color of their skin. We must choose empathy and compassion over hate and division. Only through unity, respect, and inclusion can we create an America where everyone has the opportunity to thrive.


Black lives matter is absolutely ridiculous. It sends a negative message and does nothing to promote unity or understanding among different groups of people. If Black Americans cannot accept their heritage and where they come from, then they should not bear the last names of our esteemed presidents - Washington, Lincoln, and Jefferson. It is disrespectful to act in such a manner and show disregard for their nobility.

Yes, we have had to endure terrible experiences as a society. Children who grow up in hopeless environments, where there is poverty, bullying, abuse, and shame, are likely to continue to feel pitiful and struggle through life. It's true that "where it breeds, it grows." However, just imagine the potential of that child if they decided to rise above their circumstances, overcome the injustice they were born into, and change their life for the better. It would be a remarkable achievement, a chance to turn over a new leaf and break free from their past ways.

We must not forget that our country's heritage defines us and shapes who we are. It is fundamental to our identity and should be honored and celebrated. We cannot simply discard it in the name of inclusivity. Only by uniting under our common values can we create a brighter future for ourselves and future generations

The wisdom of the
Native Americans and Black lives Resentment


Out of all the races in America, the Native Americans have every right to feel angry and resentful. It's easy for people of color to complain about how unjustly they've been treated, but they can't comprehend the massive scale of injustices carried out against Native Americans. Imagine if a foreign entity brought smallpox and other diseases that decimated entire tribes, then took over their lands and forced them onto reservations. 

And yet, despite all the terrible acts that the Native Americans have endured, they remain quiet and mature. They have the wisdom to understand that no one can take away a man's victory, no matter the outcome. No one has the right to decide how another person should feel, or the extent of their anger and pain. 

It's important to acknowledge the significance of the oppression that Native Americans have experienced. They have been fighting for their dignity and rights for centuries, yet their voices are often overlooked and silenced. We must acknowledge their struggle and make restorative efforts, provide them opportunities to regain power and control over their lives. It's essential that people of all races and backgrounds come together to support the Native American community and work towards building a more equal and just America. Only then can we hope for a society that promotes unity and belonging for every American.
Essay: Listening to Our Elders

When it comes to imparting wisdom, it's the quiet, wise old uncle that we should pay attention to. His actions and demeanor speak volumes, and we feel hurt when we do something wrong that alters his disposition. On the other hand, an uncle who comes at you exclaiming that we are a particular color is the reason for the treatment we receive; it's just a cop-out and playing the victim.

Respect for our elders should come naturally. Listening to their stories and experiences is how we learn from them. It's how we appreciate the many challenges they've faced and overcome in life. Let's be proactive in engaging in positive discourse that leads to constructive discussions and substantial progress. 

Furthermore, we must understand and acknowledge that colorism has influenced and shaped the way we perceive and interact with each other. It's a painful reality that we must address if we truly want to progress towards a more united and inclusive society.

In the end, let's give credence to our elderly family members and friends. Let us appreciate their wisdom and value their experiences while striving to forge a better future for all Americans – regardless of color. Playing the victim is not a solution, we need to take responsibility for our actions and work towards eradicating actions that perpetuate division and injustice across the nation.


 Reflecting on Our Actions


Regardless of who we are, if we were to go back 150 years, our behavior and actions would be deemed disrespectful. Today, we continue to see a lack of respect for one another, and we must pause and reflect on our conduct. 

Moreover, we shouldn't attribute success to just one color or group. If we look closely, we'll see that all races employ different tactics to get ahead. People in Congress or the Judicial System are even resorting to violence and other inhumane methodologies to advance their interests. 

While begging for respect should never be in any individual's behavior, we should recognize that interrupting or mirroring loud outrage is only counterproductive. Such tactics usually signify a retrograde system heading towards a bad situation. It's important to have a constructive conversation that leads to real change. We must focus on building coalitions and bridges, instead of breaking them down. 

Each one of us has a responsibility to ensure that perspectives are being heard, that we're treating others with respect, and that we're listening and learning from one another. Let's all work towards a society where we appreciate each other's different experiences and come together to find solutions that can bring us all forward

Reflections on Life's Challenges


We all have that one friend who constantly reminds us of life's unfairness by whining every day. Alternatively, we have friends who have endured challenging experiences and yet, make it look like a walk in the park by incredibly overcoming them. 

Think about it, colored those who are unfairly treated because of your color,  have you seen Jews continuously complain about their sufferings to Germans? No, it's because they acknowledge what's done is done and accept and forgive to get through it. 
If you don like whats on the tv change the channel, if someone cannot do so, they could go back to their native land. America isn't keeping you here. It's free so quit acting so chained up. 

It's challenging to see the silver lining in every situation, but it's better to focus on overcoming it. Expressing our grievances has its role, but it's vital to recognize that wallowing in self-pity is not a long-term solution. Doing so only exacerbates the situation and negatively affects our well-being. 

Moreover, it's essential to forgive and move on, not dwell in the past. However, it does not imply that we should ignore the injustices that have occurred. Addressing these issues is an important part of getting through it and forging a better future for all Americans. 

In the end, it all boils down to how we perceive and react to life's challenges. We should approach them with a constructive and positive mindset, focusing on finding solutions and accepting the past to move forward. Let us all work towards a society where we support one another, learn from one another, and stand together, celebrating our diversity and unifying for progress.



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